A couples massage is a wonderful way to spend relaxing, connective time with your partner.  It is also popular among close friends, as well as mothers and daughters.  A couple's massage is appropriate for any two people who desire to share the experience of massage with one another, and who are comfortable around one another.  

One thing to consider when going into a couples massage is what expectations each person has.  For example, do they want to talk during the massage, and if so, how much.  It is usually better to have these questions answered in advance, as it might be uncomfortable for someone receiving a massage to tell their close friend or spouse to stop talking.

There are different scenarios in which couples massage is truly the best option for two people.  One of these scenarios is if a couple is taking a trip to the spa and they are looking to spend their time together.  Likewise for girl-bonding trips to the spa.  A different occasion might be if one of the people involved is new to massage, and a little bit nervous about receiving their first one.  Having another person with whom they are comfortable present can help them to relax and fully enjoy the experience.

Most people would agree that human touch is essential for spiritual, emotional and mental well-being.  Whether you believe in eight hugs a day to be happy or twelve hugs a day to thrive, the notion is the same.  Human children who are deprived of touch experience lifelong, and sometimes devastating, results.  Touch is a way to connect ourselves to one another.  It is a way to show comfort, affection and support, among others.  It is, ultimately, one of our basic needs.


 
Psychological experts have long held that touch can lessen pain and anxiety, generate hope and help others to heal.  Today, various studies and experiments are showing that the medical evidence of the healing power of touch is very obvious.  The physical benefits of human touch can include a drop in blood pressure, and increased speed in healing.  Dr. James Lynch, professor at Baltimore's University of Maryland School of Medicine conducts research on touch and studies its impact upon the body.  "Physical contact has very dramatic effects upon psychological health," Lynch says. "It lowers blood pressure. It relaxes you."
 
Fortunately, it is quite easy to incorporate more physical touch in your life.  Hug your friends and family when you greet them.  Reach out to your partner- hold hands, give back rubs, or simply touch them in passing.  Children can be a wonderful source of physical affection, whether they are sitting on your lap while you read them a story, or giving you hugs when they come and go.  Reach out to those who are in need of touch, and be present in your own need for human touch.

Getting a massage can and should be a wonderful experience.  Here are few tips to help you ensure that you have the massage experience that you desire.

Prepare yourself for the massage: avoid eating a meal for an hour before the massage and make sure that you are well hydrated.

Arrive on time for your appointment: err on the side of being early, as this will give you a few moments to relax beforehand.  Many spas will offer a relaxing herbal tea, and some may even have a sauna or a steam room that you can enjoy before your appointment.

Communicate your comfort level with the massage therapists.  For example, if you are not comfortable being nude for your first appointment, let your massage therapist know this.

Hot stone massage is a healing treatment that has a historical basis in several different cultures worldwide.  Some Native American cultures used hot stones to help detoxify and promote balance, healing, and harmony in the body.  The use of hot stone therapy for curing muscle aches and tension in the body dates back to 1500 BC in China.  There are also a number of European cultures who used this technique for healing and muscle relaxation.

Today, hot stone therapy is used in conjunction with massage to increase the benefits of both.  Basalt stones are heated in warm water and then placed on the body in specific sites to relax muscles and open up energy meridians in the body.  For massage therapists, the use of hot stones can pre-treat muscles, allowing them to do deep tissue work more easily.  Some degree of massage may also be performed with the hot stones themselves, and cool stones are sometimes alternated with the hot stones.

The benefits of hot stone massage include toxin release, stress alleviation, muscle and tissue relaxation, and improved circulation.  It can calm the mind and spirit, as well as the body.  For those suffering from muscular pain, back pain, depression, insomnia, circulatory problems or high stress, this is an ideal massage to receive.  Hot stone massage can also be used to help treat Multiple Sclerosis, fibromyalgia, and arthritis.

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Vegetarian Barley Casserole with Sun-dried Tomato and Basil Pesto


Ingredients
6 cups vegetable broth
1/8 cup canola oil
1 small onion, minced
1 1/2 cups pearl barley, about 1 pound (or use Arborio rice for a gluten-free dish)
1/2 cup dry white wine
1/4 cup ricotta cheese
1/4 cup (about 2 ounces) crumbled goat cheese

Basil pesto:
2 cups fresh basil leaves, packed
1/2 cup pine nuts, roasted
3 garlic cloves, finely minced
1/2 cup grated Parmesan
1/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil
Freshly ground black pepper
1 cup sun-dried tomatoes (from a jar, or if dehydrated soaked in warm water)
6 sprigs fresh basil

For the risotto:
Bring vegetable broth to a simmer. In a separate large saucepan on an adjacent burner, heat the oil and sauté onion until it is translucent. Add barley (or rice) and lightly sauté to toast the barley. Add wine and stir for about 2 minutes until it is absorbed. Begin slowly adding broth, 1 ladle-full at a time, to the barley pan, stirring as you go. The friction of the stirring will bring out the starch in the barley. As the mixture absorbs the broth, ladle more into the pot. When all of the broth has been ladled into the barley pot, slowly simmer until barley is soft and creamy. Stir in ricotta to add creaminess, then crumble in goat cheese (to add cohesiveness), stir, cover and set aside.

For the pesto:
Place basil in food processor, add pine nuts and garlic, and pulse until chopped. Scrape into a bowl, add Parmesan and stir in oil to form a thick smooth paste. Add black pepper, to taste.

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.

Spread half of the barley (or rice) mixture over the bottom of a lasagna dish or large casserole. Top with half of the sun-dried tomatoes, and then with half of the basil pesto. Repeat for a second layer. Bake covered with foil for 25 minutes, then remove foil and continue to bake for 5 minutes to let top layer of pesto become toasted. Remove from oven and let rest for 10 minutes. Serve garnished with fresh basil sprigs.


Take a Massage Vacation In Your Town

You don't have to go far to escape from the everyday stressors of your life.  In fact, you need only go as far as the nearest massage table or spa.  If you are truly in need of some R&R, you might even choose to do an overnight stay at a spa to really make the most of your time away from reality.  If you are doing so, you can still stick to a budget by choosing fewer spa treatments, in exchange for the luxury of not having to leave the spa after your massage or facial treatment.  

There are several ways to go about finding a spa in your town, if you don't already know of a place you like.  Try asking friends and co-workers if there is any place in particular that they would recommend.  The upside of having a personal recommendation is that you can ask questions about the spa and hear about others' experiences there.  You might also consult a list online, especially one that allows others to review the services they have received there.



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