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There
are many fun and creative ways to manage stress, aside from the usual
techniques like exercise, relaxation, meditation, and counseling. As a
matter of fact, the following stress management ideas are not
dissimilar from the more common methods in terms of what they
accomplish: a sense of well-being, a venue for healthy expression, and
a productive vehicle for coping. So if you'd like to explore some new
ways to combat stress, try some of the tips below, or use them to
develop techniques of your own.
- Write yourself a letter or a love poem, complementing yourself and highlighting your successes.
- Take
pictures. Step outside yourself and take a look at the world around you
though a lens. Snap photos of trees, flowers, animals, people,
buildings - whatever it is about your world that you truly appreciate.
- Create a
sacred space. Find a corner or small area in your house and fill it
with items that have a relaxing effect on you - candles, incense,
artwork, photos, spiritual figures, books, crystals, etc. Make it a
comfortable and welcoming space where you go to relax and no stress is
invited in!
- Paint or
draw. Express yourself on canvas - or paper! However you choose to
manifest your energy in the form of art, run with it! You may even
choose to ceremoniously break some old glass plates or trinkets and
then reassemble them into a mosaic! Do something conducive to taking
negative, stress-causing energy and turning it into a beautiful
creation that's symbolic of your calm, positive mentality.
- Take a
class, play a sport, or cultivate a hobby. Anything outside of your
normal routine that you have a little time to focus on is a great way
to enhance your overall quality of life. After all, it is something you
can look forward to - a healthy diversion from the everyday.
- Cook or
bake something delicious for either yourself or someone else. For some
people, immersing themselves in the preparation of delicious food is
calming in itself. Cook with the intention of nourishing the bodies and
souls of those you feed and it will make you feel good.
- Make a
lifetime to-do list. Include things, aside from work-related goals,
that you'd like to do in life. Climb a mountain, visit the Egyptian
pyramids, skydive, build a house for a family in need, take your
children on a cross country road trip, or whatever! Think of things
that pertain to your adult life as well as things you always wanted to
do as a child. Make a promise to accomplish at least one of these
things per year.
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Even
the most industrious individuals will tell you that it's not easy to
stay motivated all the time. There are three main reasons why people
lose motivation - lack of confidence, lack of focus, and lack of
direction. By learning how to neutralize negative thoughts, nurture
motivating thoughts, and focus on the task at hand, you can pull
yourself out of a slump before lack of motivation turns into a lack of
ambition.
When
your motivation begins to wane, regain direction by creating a plan
that contains two positive actions. The first one should be a small
task you've been meaning to do, and the second one should be a
long-term goal. Do the smaller task immediately to generate some
positive momentum. Then, take the first step towards achieving the
long-term goal – that momentum is building! Doing this periodically is
great for getting out of a slump (no matter how big or small), creating
positive reinforcement, and getting long-term plans moving.
Ultimately,
as long as you're taking action, you're making progress. Talk to
yourself as if you were your own motivational speaker or life coach.
Tell yourself to tackle a small goal, and then take the rest of them
step-by-step. If it helps you to break small tasks down to even smaller
tasks, do whatever keeps your brain focused and the momentum going!
Be
on guard against the three main killers of motivation discussed
earlier. It's inevitable that you'll encounter these feelings,
especially during periods of low energy, bad luck, and outright
failure. If you don't discipline your mind, these bumps in the road can
turn into mental disasters. Keep your motivation intact by being
proactive and avoiding the urge to procrastinate. Once that momentum
starts to slow down, it can be a real struggle to get it going again.
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whether
you suffer from occasional bouts of sleeplessness or full on insomnia,
you probably know that excess energy, stress, and distractions can
affect your ability to get adequate amounts of sleep. Here are a few
tips for developing a lifestyle that's conducive to better sleep.
Don't go to bed upset, angry or anxious.
Take action in your waking life to reduce stress, anxiety and negative
feelings that hinder your sleeping life. Exercise, relaxation, and
mediation techniques that are great for sleeping disorders related to
stress abound.
If you work and live in the same space, this can affect your sleep.
Put some neutral time between work and sleep activities. If you work in
your bedroom, place a screen, curtain or some kind of divider between
your sleeping area and your work area if possible.
Keep a sleep diary. If you have persistent insomnia, track your diet and sleep behavior to look for patterns.
Comfortable bedding.
Your bedding should be comfortable and non-restricting. Use an inviting
pillow as well. Natural fibers are best as synthetic fibers can cause
static and even electromagnetic interference.
A good mattress.
If you have a bad mattress that's old, warped and buckled, you're
probably not waking up refreshed from a good night's sleep every
morning. A comfortable, supportive mattress, although it could be a bit
of an investment, can make a world of difference. If you use a futon,
try placing a thick sheet of plywood under the mattress for when you're
not using it as a couch.
Stick to a regular sleep routine as much as possible.
Go to bed and get up as consistently as you can. Bright, early morning
sunlight helps reset the human circadian clock, which is based on 24.8
hours. Getting used to rising early will help you get to bed earlier
and fall asleep easier.
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Fresh, clean
air is indispensable to good health and well-being. Fresh air refreshes
the cells, lowers body temperature, improves lung functioning, and
kills bacteria and viruses in the air. High concentrations of negative
ions are essential for high energy and a positive mood. In nature,
negative ions are generated by tumbling water, like waterfalls and
ocean surf, and though electrical thunder and lightning storms.
Unfortunately,
the average person spends about 90% of their time indoors, often with
the windows shut, breathing very little fresh air. If you spend most of
your time indoors, whether by choice or not, there are some things you
can do to revive the air you're breathing.
Fresh, clean,
outdoor air is alive with a combination of positively and negatively
charged oxygen atoms. On the other hand, indoor air that has circulated
again and again through air conditioning and heating systems becomes
polarized, containing only positively charged ions. Indoor air
pollution comes from paint, upholstery, carpeting, wallpaper, ceiling
tiles, and hundreds of other synthetic products that release volatile
organic compounds (VOCs) such as formaldehyde and benzene – making
stale, stagnant air even unhealthier.
What can you do to improve the quality of the air you breathe?
- Take breaks outside in the fresh air whenever possible, and open windows whenever possible.
- Place
indoor plants throughout your home and workspace. NASA scientists have
discovered that many houseplants are able to extract volatile organic
chemicals from the air, thus filtering out toxins as well as providing
a constant source of oxygen.
- Get an ion generator and keep it in the room you spend the most time in.
- Install a decorative indoor waterfall to generate some negatively charged ions that help to purify and recharge the air.
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Unique Uses for Hypnotherapy
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Here are a few uses for hypnosis you may not have known about:
Irritable
Bowel Syndrome - A common problem these days, IBS can be very
embarrassing for sufferers. Often this is caused by psychological
reasons which have been shown to respond very well to hypnosis in just
a few sessions.
Anesthesia - It's possible for hypnosis to
induce a partial or nearly complete state of anesthesia, making
subjects unmindful of surgical instruments, a state presumptively
likened to that of Indian yogis, who can stick needles in their arms or
lie on a bed of nails without experiencing pain.
Positive
Hallucinations - Hypnosis has the power to generate positive
hallucinations - very vivid, realistic images which result in a sensory
experience that evokes an emotional response as if the hallucinations
were real. This is a powerful form of suggestion that activates the
imagination and penetrates the memory, getting past the brain's normal
"reality testing" processes.
Pregnancy - Hypnosis can be
really beneficial in creating a relaxing effect during pregnancy and
childbirth. It also tends to create a positive impression and trusting
attitude toward labor and other processes. With hypnosis, stress
hormones that cause pain in childbirth are neutralized. On the other
hand, pain relieving endorphins are elevated, thus keeping the laboring
mother in a state of relaxation in which she is better equipped to
handle the physical and mental stresses of childbirth.
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Journaling
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In
the healing arts we talk a lot about journaling, and for good reason.
Taking those thoughts that are swarming around like bees inside our
heads and committing them to paper is one of the best ways to both
channel emotion and accelerate personal development. Have you wanted to
start a journal but keep putting it off? Have you started a journal
only to abandon it, after several entries, to your desk drawer? Here
are a few simple tips for getting your journal - and your emotional
growth - underway:
- Get the writing tools that fit you. Are
you more comfortable pounding away on your laptop or using old
fashioned pen and paper?
-Designate a time and place each day
to write. Find space in your schedule and in your home or office where
you will not be bothered or interrupted. Aside from the time you set
aside each day, you may choose to keep your journal with you for those
impulsive moments when you have a thought or idea you simply have to
write down.
-Not sure what to write about? Start off by writing
down the three words that best describe how you're feeling right now,
and then tell why. Write about your dreams, ideas, and desires.
Remember, this is YOUR journal, so there's no right or wrong, as long
you're being true to yourself. Each page represents a sacred space for
you to articulate what's inside you.
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Today's Meditation
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Find a quiet spot in your busy day for a bit of reflection. To aid you along, here's your daily meditation:
When you suddenly Realize the source of mind, You open a box of jewels. Honorable on earth and in the heavens, You are aloof even From the joy of meditation. The essence containing all flavors Is the supreme delicacy, Worth more than ten thousand Ounces of pure gold.
- Fenyang
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